That's an extremely kind offer! We are too far away from each other but I'm 100% sure you deeply mean it.Let me say, if I had a V1000 and was within 500 KM you would be seeing me with my bike.
As you said, all I wrote is 100% true, at least at the height of my undertsanding of the remap process. I'm no expert at all but I'm an engineer by trade and I can analyse technical discussions.So where I am going with this post, it is very admiral to withhold the name, in the hopes this guy comes through for you. I would suggest giving him a link to this thread, no membership is required to view this. I would say that what you describe is 100 % true and you haven't left anything out. I think you realize this forum is a good place to belong to. Even though this is a V1000 thread, the experience may help others on this forum.
My goal here is not to expose the guy that made the mistake on my ECU. My goal is to find a solution to this very unpleasing situation. Thanks again guys for your support! It is really appreciated.