Fianally got arround to emailing Jim Davis at Eastern Beaver and got a response that night.
In case anyone else decides to try and connect to this it is a Sumitomo 3P090WP-MT. He said he can get them and it sounds like he will add them to his site. I wanted it to wire in my brake light modulator (Back Off) a little more factory style and to trigger the relay from my Fuzeblock without messing with the factory wires at all. I've just got all the connectors popped out of the factory connectorys and taped to the other wires for now while I tried to find the connector.
He is starting to sell a new brake light modulator "SupraBrake" which seems pretty high tech and I think he is adding a plug and play for the Versys.
He also has 2 Pole .090 WP MT Connector 'Special D' connectors which are a factory fit to make a jumper for PAIR valve removal so you don't have to use a paper clip and tape. Just seems nice to do it like the factory would.