We finally bought a Versys. My wife has a 07 Triumph Speedmaster, and wanted another bike that was a better match with my FZ1. The Versys was my pick, she likes it, but the seat height thing is an issue. I will fix that shortly.
It's a bike that both of us like, she previously has a FZ1 also, and sold it, and regretted it since. I think the Versys will be a great bike for both of us (don't tell her). :D

I found the lowering link on ebay...item # 120219765339

They only list one at a time. I just bought this one.

I had the 05 Triumph Bonneville and put about 47,000 miles on it until it had too many problems to keep. I thought it handled well, but...the Versys is a FAR better bike. It is so easy to ride in comparison.

You'll be happy along with your wife.